hehe, yeah, if I see something I admire about my friends I usualy adopt part of it in my life style.. and if I see them doing things I dont like, I usualy try to make sure I am not doing those things lol.. and I never thought about not doing them cause it would encourage them to do it more, but you're right lol.. but that is unfortunate that people (myself included) usualy take for granted the bad things that people actually dont do that actually make them even more admirable or respectable.. lol... people rarely get credit for that stuff.. I mean of course theres like an infinite number of things people dont do.. good or bad... lol.. but some are harder than others.. but it doesnt make it anymore noticeable lol :)

I guess in some ways you cant expect people to notice.. but it feels like you should be able to lol

I liked your view on it.. lol, it was sorta right along with mine.. but from a much more interesting perspective :)